Very confused

I'm very confused. My oldest daughter is making my life a living hell...she has everyone in this small ass hick town believing that I am a horrible person. The only people I thought we had as friends believe every word that she has to say. The woman has even started to call her one of her girls. I did this too my mom but my mom didn't want me. No one did. And right now I am feeling the same way here. My husband sleeps all the time. Blames school and work well here's the kicker he was off of work for this past week so I'm not believing that. He's been sleeping a lot for a very long time even before we got together. He has PTSD & I think it's been flaring up again. Which means his medicine has stopped working. He sleeps but I can't... its not tat I don't try it's just not happening again. My PTSD is out of wack too. What a truly messed up pair we are. I can't help but think maybe staying in Alaska would have been better. Well maybe...